The
Saudi divorce laws remain absurdly unequal between men and women, even at
a time when women are highly educated and capable of earning their own living
and deciding what is best for them, including divorcing abusive spouses.
All a man has to
do to divorce his wife is simply say “I divorce you” three times or in some cases even send a text message, to tell her
that the marriage is over. But for a woman, divorce
is a grueling, lengthy and expensive ordeal. A woman has two options, both
of which are uphill battles. She can go to a Shariah court staffed by
religious judges who consider women mentally incompetent, physically
weak and emotionally unstable. She has to convince the court that her husband
is abusive in order to obtain a divorce. The problem women face in this
situation is that the judges consider men superior to women, even if they are
abusive, of unsound mind, or are molesters.
Her other equally formidable
choice is to “buy her freedom” from the unfit husband by repaying the original dowry money the father received from her husband
for allowing the marriage. This is almost
impossible for most Saudi women to do since the majority of them are not
allowed to work and earn income.
All marriages in Saudi
Arabia are arranged by and between men and there is no age limit according to
the Islamic law. Eight-year-old
girls could be forced into marrying men in their 70s and 80s.
The Saudi judicial system,
which is based on unmodified Shariah
law, is arbitrary and final decisions depend on the mood and judgment of the presiding judges. Despite the
fact that there are debates about divorce, age limits and payments, abusive marriages are
ubiquitous in Saudi Arabia. This is because of the arbitrary
religious court system and the judges who consider women unworthy of respect and full
citizenship.
(cdhr.info)